Caregiving is more than just a role; it shapes who we are, how we see the world, and how we love. One of my most profound caregiving moments was with my bonus dad, Tyrone. He had endured a stroke, battled stomach cancer, and later developed dementia. As his condition worsened, our conversations became fewer, and his words became more complex to understand. Yet, in one rare moment of clarity, he looked at me and said, “THANK YOU FOR TAKING CARE OF ME.”
Those simple words carried so much weight. Despite the exhaustion and the emotional toll of caregiving, that fleeting moment of gratitude reminded me why I was there. It was more than just caring for his physical needs—honoring our bond, his love for my mother, and our shared commitment to family. It was a moment that fueled my strength, reaffirmed my purpose, and kept me going even when the journey felt overwhelming.
– Ursula Garcia Mayes
Caregiving can be challenging, exhausting, and, at times, isolating. But moments like these remind us of the deep connections we share and the love that continues even through hardship. They are why we keep showing up with patience, resilience, and firm dedication.
Ursula Garcia Mayes is an advocate and caregiver with a deep passion for supporting others on their caregiving journeys. With years of experience providing care for multiple loved ones—including her grandmother, mother, bonus dad, and biological father she understands firsthand the challenges and rewards of caregiving. She is certified to facilitate evidence-based programs in caregiving and self-care and is committed to educating and empowering caregivers in communities, ministries, and organizations.
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